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May 1, 2018

Naming and Shaming Gambian ‘Love cheats’

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  1. Ri says:

    Hello all I’m so mad I stupid put my heart before mind if you heard or know of a guy called YANKUBA JARJUSEY hes tall, slim, has short cut hair and few facial hair but still looks young. Iv been in London all my life and never travel as I use to be a care taker for my mother who pass away. Iv been in relationships that’s never worked out like abuse, taking all that mine and taking my identity too all the crap that come with worthless fake men. I then spent my time single from my worst ever relationship for 4 year and so.. my friend told me about a site online call jamaican dating but there more people from Gambia America and other far out places I only startrd to chat meet people did think I would give money as I know of fraudsters and I know myself to be too kind hearted! I then had load of invoice from people who I felt straight away were fakes by what there said and not easy on sweet fake words of the month or hand like hi beautiful you must s a angel which I love to say no one was given wings from heaven so how is one or any an angel. But one stood out to me my age but in Gambia we spoke and he told me about hes family and friends that he use to be married have 2 kids boy and girl and the girl cheated with hes friends etc.. I said I know the feeling but it’s a good feeling when one has strong mind to lift themself up and since we enjoy each other conversation and yes he spoken good English and mocks hes family or friends who cant he ask for my contact details. I have then felt like a bad move I then decide to go ahead. All was well for the first few days of talking and face timing I was alarm that we would talk he would be in darkness and all I see is hes teeth nothing else I ask why this he said the compound the family live in has no light so I told him okay cool that fine but why dont we speak on day you dont work in day time of cause this did not happen often and when he would he would show everywhere of Gambia like normal people would he would be near walls and always laughing with a lady he claim was he sister or by passer I wasnt fuss then notice another thing that all he friends loves to wear glasses to not be detected or recognise which too was gone to me I’m not dating them only him. I was receiving less contact by him then next month hit and hes tell me hes in love with me and the woman I am etc want us to get married if I come over soon or take my time but he will love me today tomorrow and the test of hes life and our lifes talking about when i come over the first few day i will not visit no where as he has plan to get me pregnant and hes family too will push for is to happen by giving him tip to prepare to bread I found all this funny but taking slow on this I started say I love you back as when I am on the phone to him if I end the call say speak soon, later he winter like it forcing to hear I love you too so many time to convince it’s real he then would go missing coming back with excuses to where what is going on. He tell me hes broke that why the wife left him hes friend has more money to support them I gave hin money towards credit he still would not contact me I then recieved a message saying hes on he way to renew he driving licence but cant afford a car.. I wasnt going to help out but be there until I feel it’s real love. He would ask for pics and vid chat and soon of person but send or show little of himself and most people look alike so still would not know and then later be came disconnect disrespectful telling my mix of white and black side and I dont know much about my black side calling me white and got mad as he would not of except me too I then stop contacting he notice this as when I block him will contact on friends or family number. Then few months more the main focus was me my job and income and friends nothing about my family I ask that why this tell me you please when we been talk for 2 month no hearing about hes work later then said ohhh um yeah that he ain’t work for a whole year until January next year. Few day later I received a call from another Gambia number it was him saying he got a ride to where he sleep at night with a Male friend and hes family instead of hes own family which was weird hes own family home has better signal to speak on phone and when he eat he leave him and goes over the friend side telling me the people trying to get the same car ride had stolen hes phone out of pocket I said babe why not hold your phone still trying to debate more reason of why my advise made no sense to me I said omg wow I then came to realise that I have been played as he still uses he number but trying to get money for using hes phone as a reason to claim money.

  2. Anymous says:

    Dear all women, Be careful with Ismaila Jammeh, he is a teacher, fieldofficer. In the beginning he seems really sweet and nice. Then he falls in love with you. Want to see the picture of your car .After that asking money for study or out of money for food. Shows his body and after a few weeks he starting more like buy a car, laptop, his mom is sick. Keep saying truly love you and asking for clothes, shoes, suits. When i stop doing that then he lied more by saying that he is at the police and they are taking him to court and he need money as soon as possible. And he you don’t pay and asking for prove then he block you. Before then is got lots of money from you. While texting with me he was also busy especially adding USA women because he want to reach out to the US. And he is especially adding older women because they have money and they are lonely. So please be careful before he ruin your life: ISMAILA JAMMEH fieldofficer working at the effective intervention at the moment. For more information you can reach out to me. I have all the pictures and evidence. He may have another facebook with another name.

  3. Anymous says:

    Dear all women, Be careful with Ismaila Jammeh, he is a teacher, fieldofficer. In the beginning he seems really sweet and nice. Then he falls in love with you. Want to see the picture of your car .After that asking money for study or out of money for food. Shows his body and after a few weeks he starting more like buy a car, laptop, his mom is sick. Keep saying truly love you and asking for clothes, shoes, suits. When i stop doing that then he lied more by saying that he is at the police and they are taking him to court and he need money as soon as possible. And he you don’t pay and asking for prove then he block you. Before then is got lots of money from you. While texting with me he was also busy especially adding USA women because he want to reach out to the US. And he is especially adding older women because they have money and they are lonely. So please be careful before he ruin your life: ISMAILA JAMMEH fieldofficer working at the effective intervention at the moment. For more information you can reach out to me. I have all the pictures and evidence. He may have another facebook with another name.

  4. I been to see my boyfriend in Gambia I noticed on his chest of draws a lock of white female hair tied In a string. I ask what this who this belongs to. He answer does not idea how it got there. He think I am a fool.

  5. Lorna says:

    He committed bigamy not me sorry

  6. Brave girl says:

    Be very careful of a cherno Singhateh and his brothers they are full hate towards women
    I have had one of his brothers contact me in the past about my modeling picture being a ring girl and holding up the number 3 and told that I have not to do that because boxing is his thing I have never meet the guy in my life and I have at the other brother telling me it is inappropriate and I have never meet him before so much hate and I have had cherno himself telling me am a prostitute for modeling. I have had nothing but hate from these men definitely signs of being terroist be very careful

  7. Stay safe says:

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  8. Anonymous says:

    Be very careful of a cherno Singhateh and his mum Marie prierra
    I have never come across such greed
    When we first arrived in gambia we took lots of things over her son gave her everything and bring everything and is was still not enough.
    I could not believe this women wanted more
    She wanted my bags and wanted me leave them wanted my shoes and when she find out I had a big tv back home she wanted a big tv.I could not believe this greed from this women and the amount she asked for her son learn her to drive buy her car my new wardrobes buy new Funtuite and it’s still not enough the greedy ness is to much it’s like they think money grows on trees they care takers take,take,take and want more and more and some of cherno family had pictures of young children on their Facebook and would call them their wife sick a child of 5 and you say it’s your wife you are getting involved in a very bad family and they think they own you they are very bad mannered

  9. Anonymous says:

    A lot of these Gambians will use guilt,force,bully and put pressure on you and from their family’s for a visa and be a financial burden don’t let these men or family members bring you down you are worth more than being tied down with a man with visa issues and lawyers and paper work live your life be free and enjoy because if your man was good and his family it would be easy for him to get his papers and worth sticking by no one wants to stick by a liar and get negative remarks from his mentally ill judgment family you work hard for your money put in your house improve your life don’t put it to a liar

  10. Anonymous says:

    Some of these Gambians will fle to another country and say they are gay when they are not just to a visa and say they do not feel safe when their government was yahya and can’t go back because they are gay
    A lot of them fle to get benefits and like once in a interview yahya jammeh said some of his own Gambian don’t want to get their hands dirty and work
    Some of these Gambians have cars and land in their country and seek what they can get from another country hiding their assets and milking the system really not fair and right for the genuine Gambians that are hard working honest,loyal and have a lot to offer and for people and family’s that need the support and system

  11. Anymoues says:

    Your life will really be turned upside down.
    it’s a shame for these women they have jobs or studying and it’s all spoiled with these men some girls have to give up college because these men put them throw so much emotional stress and some of the lady’s have to go on the sick because it’s far to much for them to cope with and these selfish men don’t care all they care about is themselves
    Think of that time and money wasted at the end result was not worth it trust me focus on your own life and don’t mind these men it ends in tears and a lot of emotional pain and trauma the guilt they use on you and pressure the right person will add to your happiness not take it away and be a burden to your life and inner peace no real man would ask what they ask of you remember lady’s it’s not your fault their not happy with their life,government and country

  12. Anymoues says:

    The more this Gambian man does not get his way the more of a bully he turns in to and the more angry he gets and the more he shouts and the more pressure he puts on you
    Why should I go without to give his son and family presents while his son mother gets her hair,nails done and buy clothes and is ok with another women doing this so she can spend more money on herself and going out why does this family want someone else to fund this boy so much and want so much they think they are owed a living bloody cheeky family that’s why

  13. Anymoues says:

    You will never get peace with these men or their family’s they will call your Gambian partner all the time for money and your Gambian partner will ask you for to much and want you to do to much your better out of it all and going back to your life before you meet such negative

  14. Anymoues says:

    Gambian men will post to their social media that they are living their best life but trust me they are very jealous manic depressed guys and will call each other complaining about their life and how unhappy they are they will moan to each other on the phone and say they are fed up of their pregnant wife who after all got them citizenship their visa and a lot for them and now carrying their baby these men want everything done for them so lazy their papers sorted out a job they want you to sort their national insurance number out the men are hard work
    I only went out for a night out and ended up with a really bad Gambian guy it’s the worst relationship I have ever had your whole life is turned upside down and based on their visa these men are cowards and hide behind women to do everything

  15. Anymoues says:

    You will never meet a Gambian man has stupid as cherno Singhateh the man is a very foolish dictator such an idiot of a person and a pure whimp of a man that has no back bone and he has such a needy Greedy family who are very selfish and very jealous

  16. Anymoues says:

    Be very wary of a cherno Singhateh
    He will always do a disappearing acts on you he is such a dictator and a control freak the amount of pressure he will put on you and such bullying you will face from him to try and get his own way he wants to be funded and wants everything done for him he will constantly take your happiness away and become more and more of a dictator

  17. Anymoues says:

    It’s a shame what these men do to women and put them throw the women do a lot for these men and it’s never enough they are such a let down and such a disappointment and such low life’s

  18. Anymoues says:

    Most of these men are born liars and find it very hard to tell the truth and cover each lie with another lie and then it becomes a big web of lies
    Most of these men are not independent men they relie on what they can get out of you and get out the system and will bully you to get what they want very weak men they have no value of money and will bleed you dry

  19. Anymoues says:

    Be very wary most of these men are after something from you they want you to fund them support them buy them mobile phones, clothes,boxers,aftershave and none of the 30ml a bottle they want a big 100ml of bottle of aftershave they make you do all the work while they laze about most of them don’t want a baby out of love but out of selfish reason for papers there behaviour is sickening and very unreasonable and they need STOPED
    I can Guarantee you that you will not know there immigration history and most of them are illegal immigrants looking for an Easier life while making your life harder and turning it upside down most of them are out for what they can get their intentions are Rarely Genuine and will use their religion in every shape and form to manipulate you to get what they want most of the time it’s a dupe in a shame marriage

    • Charlene Williams says:

      Wow! You are absolutely correct they will use their religion please don’t believe them.

  20. The wrong girl you tried to mess with says:

    Be careful of Gambians most of them force pregnancy on you to try and secure citizenship in uk,Europe and many other places it’s not real or based on love it’s based on hope and an better Life for themselves and secure themselves and don’t care who they hurt and use along the way most of them are cunning and scammers and tricksters and put on a front to immigration it’s a life of visa forms and stress very selfish men.
    Most of They travel or have traveled and know that’s not the way women should be treated but they can’t change even though their is a different world out they most of them can’t get rid of their ignorant village life and will keep their mentality

  21. Singhateh says:

    Be very aware of this man cherno Singhateh he will lock you in hotel rooms and take they key and you can’t get out he will leave for hours on end in till he decided to let you out and when you are let it out it’s only for photos for his visa and then you are locked back up in the hotel

  22. Annymes says:

    Cherno Singhateh thinks he is a big cool gangster because he sells weed and hangs in the streets with his boys he thinks he is a hard man and that he is living his best life he is a bully and begs women to sent him money and buy clothes for him he is not a man of his own he is a very sad lonely man with nothing to offer that pressure he will put on you to marry and he dumps his family on you and wants you to sort his life out while he does nothing but be a very lazy slow turtle this Gambian man is an animal a pathetic excuse of man he has no job no future no ambitions and treats women poorly he wants women to support him

  23. Anoymess says:

    Please be careful entering a Relationship with a Gambian it will be a life of hell and a Hoilday nightmare that they will bring you they will have you filling out visa forms and taking you to the embassy it’s not a relaxing Hoilday and they are never of their phones and sit and hang around in the streets they are boys not real grown men and meeting their family’s are a night mare they beg you and and they try and get as much as they can out of you

  24. Kofrey says:

    Beware of a cherno Singhateh he will sexually hurt you and when you tell him stop you are hurting me he will slap your hands away and continue for his own sexual pleasure he is terrible in bed and can’t satisfie everything is for own pleasure when you are going throw sexual hell with him very ignorant man hope the next women kicks the shit out of him

  25. Lucky escape says:

    Please be careful of these men especially a cherno Singhateh.
    most of their women are circumcised and have no feeling down below and the men have very rough sex because the women can’t feel it
    so be careful if you enter a relationship with the men because they will continue that vile rough sex with you and it’s not nice the worst sex I have ever experienced pure evil unloveing horrible hurtful sex ever I used to dread having sex with the men women who have not been circumcised feel the vile rough sex and no real man who ever make love to a women like that or ever want to hurt no matter what culture you are from it’s not nice or kind or normal

  26. Patricia says:

    January 19 just be careful about Keita Charles living in London he is a cheater will telling you I’m Charles not a as all the other Gambians, he will tell you everything you do like to hear for years – but at the end of the day you will end up with a real Gambian

    • kate says:

      The Gambian men are terrible and have no respect for women what so ever getting involved with a Gambian is bad news and it’s a path of and web of lies and your life and world will get turned upside down they are such a burden to your life and inner peace the men are weak bully’s

    • Sandra says:

      Getting involved with a Gambian is bad news they spoil your life and Hoilday’s your Hoilday will not be relaxing it’s constantly filling in visa forms and getting send to the embassy you don’t get peace

  27. Jeanna Smotherman says:

    Does anyone know SANNA FADERA OR MANDOU FADERA

  28. […] I have learnt a lot. I’ve learnt of heartbreak. I’ve learnt about scams. I’ve learnt about how Lamin’s sister is actually his wife. I’ve heard the story about how Demba vanished the moment he was given his UK passport. I know all about Oumil’s anger after his girlfriend caught him snogging another women… You read these stories for yourself in my post- Naming and shaming Gambian love cheats. […]

  29. anonymous says:

    how to delted comments I have a legal letter saying am getting done for slander

  30. Mancurian Gal says:

    BEWARE of JIMMY TOURAY aka (G) Gibril (originally from Brikama) used to sit at a boat near Dominoes, KOTU BEACH ( BUT I STRESS NO LONGER PART OF VIPER FISHING) NOW sits at LEYBATO. Known to have a Finish woman, uses one of his Gambian girlfriend’s to manipulate women and set up men (known as Khadjatou) and known legal wife in U.K. Known to sleep with local prostitutes and a carrier of Hep B. Also known to have another Gambian girlfriend as well as previous Gambian wife…. A serious thief and troublemaker very charming but deceptive … DONT BE FOOLED!!!

  31. Sally says:

    Beware of a cherno Singhateh and beware of his mum and aunt they will be the witness at your wedding they are in on the plan and know all about chernos were abouts and what he is involved in and what he gets up

  32. I’m British married to a young gambian from brikama

  33. The Tobab Wife. says:

    Be aware of a Cherno Singhateh and his family they are VERY controlling and they all think they own you when you marry into the family.

  34. TOBAB says:

    Please beware of a cherno singhateh

    Do not allow him into your family life he will go round your family members from the first time of meeting them and start taking lots of photos it’s for the purpose of his visa this is his goal and plan

    who meets someone’s family for the first time and takes lots of photos with them

    He is not interested in getting to know you its all a dupe into a sham marriage.

    Beware of the Brothers and cousins The want to have sex with you beware you are not safe with this man or his family they are money greedy hungry Sex predators perverts

  35. Lou Smith says:

    Please be aware of a cherno Singhateh.

    He will ask for your bank card from the second time of meeting you and ask for the pin number he will say his ex done it for him in Germany He will try and guilt you into doing this.

    He will ask you to sent money abroad for him and tell you that you need to buy clothes and big bottles of aftershave for him.

    Cherno is a drug-dealing prostitute and gets what he can out of people

    Even his Male friends he will try and get what he can out of them and try and copy them

    Don’t go to Gambia with him his family will Ambush you and ask where their money is it’s all to do with drugs the family are heavily involved in selling drugs and live in each other’s pockets

    he has a plan he wants UK entry to access all free things he is an opportunist with no shame

    he does not treat women very well he says he sleeps with women just to empty his sperm its very degrading and no respect towards women.

    he will force a child on you and try and force pregnancy on you and dump his problems and family on you.

    The family are very hard work they want money and gifts all the time they have no shame in asking

  36. Lou Smith says:

    Please be aware of a cherno Singhateh.

    He will ask for your bank card from the second time of meeting you and ask for the pin number he will say his ex done it for him in Germany He will try and guilt you into doing this.

    He will ask you to sent money abroad for him and tell you that you need to buy clothes and big bottles of aftershave for him

    he has a plan he wants UK entry to access all free things he is an opportunist with no shame

    he does not treat women very well he says he sleeps with women just to empty his sperm its very degrading and no respect towards women.

    he will force a child on you and try and force pregnancy on you and dump his problems and family on you.

    The family are very hard work they want money and gifts all the time they have no shame in asking

  37. Paul says:

    Please beware of a cherno Singhateh 40-year-old on the Badoo dating website from Edinburgh is not from Edinburgh he is from Gambia and in the UK illegally.
    He has been trying for years to enter the UK but the home office will not allow him.

    He is looking for women to look after his son and holds a grudge towards his son and hates paying out money for him

    He wants a baby with a British girl because he says he will not need to pay for a scan and the government will fund the baby

    He is after Benefits in the UK its what he can get out of a British woman and the Britsh system hes not a hard working man very lazy like a turtle and smoke weed all day long.

    his heart don’t hold love only greed

  38. Lou Smith says:

    Beware of a CHERNO SINGHATEH

    He will try and get you pregnant and force you to come off your pill

    He will use his islam religion to do this he will say your so old you really should be married and have children by now.

    He will try and make you feel so bad about yourself and try and knock your confidence and self-esteem

    But really he is the old one and for his age, he should be more forward in life but he is very backwards.

    He will sexually abuse you and be very rough in bed with you.

    He thinks its normal for older men to abuse children he thinks it is normal These stories are in his culture paper all the time and he thinks its normal and ok.

    The men in his family will also try and put you down.

    His cousins will also tell you to get pregnant STAY AWAY FROM THIS MAN AND HIS FAMILY DANGER

  39. Stacey Burns says:

    Hi there, I am researching a documentary on British women who have traveled to The Gambia looking for love. If any of you would like to talk and tell me about your experiences, then please get in touch on the details below.
    Best Wishes
    Stacey

    Producer
    Boomerang
    Cardiff
    stacey.burns@boomerang.co.uk
    T: 02922 450 268

  40. Susan says:

    Be aware of a Cherno Singhateh. He is on the badoo dating website and is an illegal Immigrant wanting a UK visa He will go to any lengths to get a visa and is a bully and forces women into Marriage and harasses the women to call the home office and email them with also added pressure from his brother osuman Singhateh nickname Ozzy and his other brother deejay limbo who is trying to start a music career and can’t handle strong independent women. Cherno Singhateh is a male drug dealing prostitute and sleeps with lots of money and try’s to get as much as he can out of you and so does the rest of the family. They have a grass crop over in the Gambia and all work together and deal in UK and Europe. This is how Deejay limbo funds his music Career and the rest of the family beware of this family there very very bad do not get involved.

  41. J r c says:

    Gambia women too are to be careful of. Too. Look out for Veronica wolo. She stole my passport and airline ticket asking for all my money in return for it Had to go to the police to get it back. Who eventually did. With just hours to my flight.

  42. Ann says:

    Does anybody know Buba E. Njie, Björn 9th of May 1972 in Serekunda?

  43. […] These examples are not isolated cases, there are so many examples of this on the internet, and what’s funny is that many of the stories quote things that the men have said to them, and they all say things that I have myself heard from Gambian men! Some of these stories many can be found on the Naming and shaming Gambian ‘love cheats’.  […]

  44. kerry wright says:

    Hi all please help my mum has fallen in love with a Gambian man she is 57 and he is 27 she’s just told me she’s getting married and getting him a visa. We can all see it’s not love but what do i do?

    • Jc says:

      Tell her to have a word with me I’ve just come back from Gambia. Minus all my money

    • Stacey Burns says:

      Hi Kerry, I’m researching a documentary about women who travel to Gambia looking for love. I would like to hear more about your Mum’s experiences if you have time for a phone call? My details are you below.

      • Lorna says:

        Hi there my name is lorna I’m just going through the divorce process I too was cheated on and as also committed bigamy my number 07596006125

  45. Disappinted says:

    A big womanizer and a scammer, only in 2018 dating 5 european women same time promising them all to marry them, trying to make them all pregnant, asking for money for so many fake reasons, taking them all to see the family and the family is in on this scam. They were planning 3 weddings same time!! Only goal is to make them think he loves them in order to win money and visa to Europe. Bruno Jacky, skinny rasta man about 27 years. Goes also by the name Muhammed Jacky.

  46. Lisa Ann says:

    I just met a guy on FB. My question is, what is up with these dilipate names. Frist and last name. His is Essa Touray. There are a few guys with the same name,and they all are on each others friend list
    Essa,says he is 35. No kids,no girl friend,no wife,and he his an officer, drug agent. I dont believe him. I would love to crack the mystery tho. He says he lives in a compound by his self. Lies,gotta be
    Gambian men are known not to cook,wash clothes, or clean up. So I asked him out of the blue. Who cooks for you. I think he almost chocked,then said he rents a basin of food ect. I bet he has a wife.When he calls,alot of times I can hear a child,he says she lives in the compound and not his. Smh. Does anyone know an Essa Touray they call him Giggs too
    HELP.

    • Val says:

      I don’t know him but my man washer and cooks for me when I am with him.ask this man to take you to where he lives

  47. Edith says:

    Has anybody has any sort of dealing with a guy name Lukas Devine. We met online on Afroindrotuction. Just want to know if any women has fallen for his charm and honesty ad he put it.

    • Dajie says:

      Keep away from Lukas Devine/Divine. We met on Afro introductions online. He seems upfront. Will even send you his New guinea passport image to put you at ease. He organized a visa via a female colleague Fatima who is a Gambian citizen. I thought it was odd but i used her details to obtain my visa. I went to meet him in March 2019. Stayed at his” work rented house” on Kairaba Avenue/street it has blue walls. I was due for a holiday so I decided to go to Gambia. He says he’s a marine engineer. On LinkedIn it states so too. All went well. UNTIL
      He showed me black money claiming he needed a solution to wash it. He’ll tell you he only needs the last $5000 dollars to accomplish this. He’s gotten a loan, his uncle is helping him, etc. I loaned him the money after coming back home via western union. Till today’s he’s dissappeard. Before that we kept in touch then he vanished in Oct. A few weeks later I received an email from him apologizing for being incommunicado because he lost his phone. Whatever device he used to tell me he lost his phone is clearly lost too. This guy is exposed to computers at work. Its baffles the mind. His Skype doesnt work either. Im planning to go face him and get my money back by any means possible.
      I really liked him. I was helping him. The idea of meeting a man with money and a career is a bonus and i thought id found love and good luck. I truly went there expecting the opposite of what I found. All seemed well and true right down to the photos he sent me and the background in his photos.
      Im not destitute but who wants to lose $5000?

  48. Edith says:

    I have been a victim of grooming by a guy in Gambia . But luckilly i did caught on early about his intention. And disconnect with him.

  49. Baukje Oebeles says:

    I am a dutch woman, in relationship with a senegalese man, residing in the Gambia. He is asking me for money and hopes I will buy a compound in the Gambia for him. He told me his previous relationship was a lady in the UK. He was complaining she never came to visit him, that is why he quit. But she used to send him money every week. I wonder if anyone who is reading this post knows him. His name is Mamadou Diallo.

  50. Jeanna Smotherman says:

    How do i find out if my gambian is married

  51. hayley simmons says:

    is there a list of the love cheats to warn women that think they have found a Gambian man and dont know whether to trust them

    • Hayley says:

      That was the intention but women seem to be reluctant to gives names! Would anybody name them?

      • Hi Hayley I’ll name mine..I’ve been talking to him for a few weeks and he’s fallen in love and needs me in Gambia and ‘in his house’..when I met him he was 36, 2 days later he said it’s my birthday aren’t u happy I’m 35, and today he said he was 36 again..my guy doesn’t know his agetoday he sent me a pic of his passport and that says he’s born in 1988 lol..btw I’m 53 which doesn’t bother him one bit as u can imagine..Hayley he also says he’s a teacher and has sent me lots of pics of him with kids..I know he’s up to no good, I just don’t know to what extent..the FB profile I met him on is Zee Jallow, and when I asked him what his real first name was he told me Ebrima..both ebrima and jallow are common names and jallow is spelled many diff ways..he has another profile under zee alphabet jahlo..I said I’d never trust him but he’s just so damn persistent…can u find out who he really is? When u do u go right ahead and name and shame him..I’ve got quite a few photos to share, and one really naughty bbc ohmygawd! pic lol

        • Hayley says:

          Wow it does sound like he is playing games here, who doesn’t know their age!? Hopefully someone here will recognise him and let us know who he really is??

          • Fmt says:

            Leave him alone…all of them want visa…someone to pay their things and they are married with children…but they will play with you till the end and them wives in there are happy just to get money
            Don’t do that.Stay away from Gambians.They only lie and use you.

    • ruqia adan says:

      I think we should all post there names and date of birth because alot of gambians have first and last names that are exactly the same. So I fell for a guy name Lamin defou and DOB is July 23 1975. Has and Gambian ex that apperanly run off with a British man and their daughter. We met in afrointroduction.

  52. Caz says:

    be very careful very cautious not all the same I met my estranged husband in uk while he was visiting he was kind attentitve loving tick all the boxes i spend time in gambia with his family after 3 years we marry I bring him and his young son to uk then things change he start doing things to make me mad then he collect all evidence he could to make a case after some months he leave and make allegations against me of domestic violence to get his papers would take money my belongings would be missing that was over a year ago in which time I find out he have wife in gambia also another child he conceive with his wife after our marriage. I am still experiencing problems in this refusing to divorce me.
    But I have also met some very good people also honest and loyal so it really does depend on the person but one sure way to know is if they pressure you for money or try make you feel guilty. I still spend lot of time in Gambia and with gambian people as I have business out there now so my advice is if something don’t feel right then usually its not.
    Now I do have a good Gambian man who stands by my side.
    Don’t fall for everyone human and makes mistakes that is their favourite saying.

    • Mayon says:

      Interested why this story sounds like a guy I met on fb name Assan Jallow but he lives in Italy

    • Angela says:

      Interested why this story sounds like a guy I met on fb name Assan Jallow but he lives in Italy Also goes by Atom Jallow. Claim he works in the school as a English translator for Italian music students

  53. Jennifer says:

    Just be careful and relize they are poor and to them we are rich

  54. Hayley says:

    Jacquie- I’ve meet a Gambian man on Facebook and am to visit him in November. My friends say be careful they only want money, visa & sex. Mine has shown no signs of this. Thank you for being positive. Mine calls me each evening spending 50 dalasi of his 80 dalasi daily wage. You can’t paint everyone with the same brush.

    • Lisa Ann says:

      I just met a guy on FB. My question is, what is up with these dilipate names. Frist and last name. His is Essa Touray. There are a few guys with the same name,and they all are on each others friend list
      Essa,says he is 35. No kids,no girl friend,no wife,and he his an officer, drug agent. I dont believe him. I would love to crack the mystery tho. He says he lives in a compound by his self. Lies,gotta be
      Gambian men are known not to cook,wash clothes, or clean up. So I asked him out of the blue. Who cooks for you. I think he almost choked,then said he rents a basin of food ect. I bet he has a wife.When he calls,alot of times I can hear a child,he says she lives in the compound and not his. Smh. Does anyone know an Essa Touray they call him Giggs too
      HELP.

    • Val says:

      I have been to Gambia .this man does not live off 30 a day sorry

  55. Hayley says:

    Tracey- I am a British girl age 35 in relationship with a gambian man for 1.5 years then got married we both don’t want children and is now 7 years living together happily. I must say that we do have problems but thats life sometimes his fault sometimes mine. In any country both men and women do have negative and positive behaviours or act what are read here applies to all other countries in the maybe west is even worst. My advice is pray to meet a good man or women. My gambian man is true loving, caring, honest and human. Good luck in your search.

  56. Hayley says:

    Jane- I am british and I getting engaged soon to a Gambian man and we are about the same age (35circa). trouble is I hear these stories and as i have bought him gifts, he asks for money to support him and not bothered about seeing me I am now getting more concerned and he says we will also marry.???

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